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Racist bullying: Top tips for schools

We have worked with organisations across the anti-racism, safeguarding, education and anti-bullying sectors, to produce guidance on preventing and responding to racist bullying.

Read our 'Preventing and Responding to Racist Bullying: Practical guidance for schools and settings supporting children and young people' here.

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Principles that should guide every conversation about racist bullying:

These apply whether you are talking to the pupil targeted, the pupil who has bullied, a bystander or a parent.

Acknowledge and validate

  • Do not minimise or brush things aside.
  • “Thank you for telling me. I understand this must have hurt you. What you experienced or heard is not acceptable.”

Use clear, explicit language

  • Call the behaviour what it is.
  • Do not label young people as ‘racists’
  • Rather than “unkind behaviour”, use “racist language”. 
  • Be clear when language is racist in nature. 
  • Context can help us understand what happened, but it must never be used to excuse or downplay racist behaviour or the impact of racist bullying. Racism should always be named and addressed on its own terms.

Be calm, curious and firm

  • Ask open questions, avoid accusations, and show you want to understand what happened.

Separate the behaviour from the child

  • This helps conversations stay productive.
  • “You are not a bad person. The language you used is racist, and we need to deal with that.”

Be restorative as well as corrective

  • Sanctions may be necessary, but the long-term goal is understanding, attitude change and preventing repetition.
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When you witness or hear an incident:

All staff have a responsibility to respond promptly and consistently when they witness or are informed about racist bullying. How adults respond in the moment sends a powerful message to pupils about what is acceptable and whose safety matters.

Schools have the powers to intervene in bullying that takes place off school premises e.g. on the way to and from school or online. 

Respond immediately and name the behaviour

If it is safe to do so, intervene straight away. Calmly stop the behaviour and clearly name it as racist bullying. Avoid minimising language or reframing the incident as banter or a misunderstanding.

Make it clear that the behaviour is not acceptable and goes against the school’s values, behaviour policy and legal duties under the Equality Act 2010.

Prioritise safety and support

Check that the pupils involved are safe and supported. Where appropriate, separate pupils to prevent further harm and ensure the targeted pupil has access to a trusted adult.

Do not ask the targeted pupil to explain or justify what has happened in front of others. Any detailed conversations should take place privately.

Record and report

Record the incident as soon as possible, using the school’s agreed systems. Records should clearly identify the incident as racist bullying and include what happened, who was involved, and what immediate actions were taken.

Report the incident in line with school procedures, including to senior leaders or safeguarding leads where required. Racist bullying should never be dealt with informally or in isolation. See the definitions section about what constitutes a racist incident/racist bullying. 

Follow up appropriately

Ensure that the incident is followed up with:

  • Support and check ins for the pupil who has been targeted
  • Clear consequences and educational responses for the pupil who has bullied
  • Communication with parents or carers in line with school policy

Staff should not assume that one response is sufficient. Ongoing monitoring and follow up are essential to prevent repeat harm.

Learn more from our 'Preventing and Responding to Racist Bullying: Practical guidance for schools and settings supporting children and young people' here.

Resources for download

Preventing and Responding to Racist Bullying: Practical guidance for schools and settings supporting children and young people

Anti-Bullying Alliance - June 2026

Racist and faith targeted bullying - a review of the current literature (2020)

Anti-Bullying Alliance

Tackling race and faith targeted bullying face to face and online - a guide for schools (2017)

Anti-Bullying Alliance

UAB Case Study: Encouraging integration of refugees

United Against Bullying (UAB) School Case Study

UAB Case Study: Encouraging understanding and celebration of different cultures

United Against Bullying (UAB) School Case Study

UAB Case Study: Improving relationships with GRT families and pupils

United Against Bullying (UAB) School Case Study

UAB Case Study: Reducing bullying amongst minority groups

United Against Bullying (UAB) School Case Study

External Resources

Professionals Online Safety Helpline

A free helpline from the South West Grid for Learning and the Safer Internet Centre supporting professionals working with children and young people with any online safety issues they face.

Protecting children from radicalisation and extremism

Internet Matters

Discriminatory Bullying Help Page

Kidscape

Racism and racial bullying

Childline

Anne Frank Trust

The Anne Frank Trust UK is a charity dedicated to using the life and diary of Anne Frank to educate young people about the dangers of prejudice, discrimination, and hatred.

Solutions not Sides

Bringing the voices of Palestinian and Israeli peace builders to British schools.

The Black Curriculum

A social enterprise that addresses the lack of Black British history in the UK curriculum and provides educational resources.

Anti-Racism Toolkit

Diverse Educators - A collaborative community that celebrates the successes and amplifies the stories of diverse people, and have created an anti-racism toolkit for educators.

Bell Foundation

The Bell Foundation aims to overcome exclusion through language education. They focus on supporting EAL learners in schools, providing training for teachers, and conducting research.

Show Racism the Red Card - Education Hub

An anti-racism educational charity that uses football to educate against racism and works with children in schools and have an education hub with lots of anti-racism resources.

Talking racism and mental health in schools: podcast series

Anna Freud Centre have lots of guidance for schools, including a guide for teaching a curriculum topic that is linked to race and racism, or for when a potentially traumatic racist incident occurs in the wider world.

Educate Against Hate

A website by the DfE providing resources to help teachers and parents prevent radicalisation and hate, including racism.

An Educator’s Guide to Anti-Racist Bullying

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Coram Children's Legal Centre

Provides legal advice and representation to children and young people, to ensure they have access to education and support They promotes and protects the rights of children in the UK and internationally in line with the UN Convention on the Rights of the

Faith in Us: Educating Young People about Islamophobia

EqualiTeach have created a resource for teachers called ‘Faith in Us: Educating Young People about Islamophobia’, among other resources about equality and diversity.

The Economist Educational Foundation

An independent charity that creates teaching resources and events to support the development of news literacy in students around the world. Their recent Topical Talk on the media may help with discussion with older children about misinformation.

Addressing unrest, disinformation and violence

National Youth Agency

What to do about racist bullying?

Family Lives

Equality - making it happen

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Training

Together As One

School resources

Remembering Srebrenica

Kick It Out is English football’s equality and inclusion organisation.

Kick It Out

Exploring diversity through film

IntoFilm

Video resources to build confidence in challenging anti-muslim sentiment

Counter-Extremism - LGfL

A range of resources for schools

The Runnymede Trust

Preventing hair discrimination in schools

Equality and Human Rights Commission

Helping young children to think about race in the early years

Anna Freud Centre

The Challenge to Cohesion - Blog

Ali Amla

Both not half

A TEDx Talk about the power of language and its impact on identity

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